How to Get Aroused
DO NOT try to insert anything into your partner’s vagina without her being aroused or she will be in pain from too much pressure and too much friction which will cause a burning pain. When you get her aroused or excited you will feel her vagina start to get moist and then wet, now you can continue. There are many ways to get yourself or your partner aroused.

• Rub your partner’s vagina without penatrating it, this will help arouse her.
• Rub her entire body with your hands also apply pressure on some areas, almost like you are massaging her. Consentrate on sensitive areas like her breasts, nipples, vagina, butt, stomach, and inner theighs. Every woman is different so try asking her is that feels good. Also watch her reactions to your touch, such as her breathing, her facial expressions, her eyes, and also her body movements. Learn to read these reactions as it will help you with all aspects of your relationship, sexual and non-sexual.
• Kissing her is another great way of arousing her. So kiss her all over as well, kiss her lips, ears, neck, breasts, nipples, stomach, and inner theighs.
• You can also do the same things with licking, and nibbling. DO NOT bite her, she is not a steak! unless you have tested this and know she likes it, start soft and work your way harder until you see a complaint either vocally from her or from her reactions.
• Tease her mind, start kissing or licking towards a sensitive area and just before you get to it, do a U turn. This will create thoughts in her mind teasing it and her body.
• If you are masturbating, think of things that turns you on.
• Spanking her butt or theighs, DO NOT beat her! You can use this in a combination with squeezing and applying pressure, smack and grab on, then work it into a rub.
• Use combinations, don’t stick to just one technique or another, do multiple things at once. Again, read her body to see which combinations work the best and you can always ask her, don’t stop doing what you are doing to ask her either, this will definitely kill the mood that you built up so far, work it in as you are doing your thing. She will not think you are stupid or a novice for asking such questions, this is normal! Just don’t sound like a broken record asking every 10 seconds.